{"id":2108,"date":"2025-05-27T13:48:23","date_gmt":"2025-05-27T12:48:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/?p=2108"},"modified":"2025-05-27T13:48:24","modified_gmt":"2025-05-27T12:48:24","slug":"end-of-life-nurse-reveals-one-move-people-make-when-close-to-death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/?p=2108","title":{"rendered":"End of life nurse reveals one move people make when close to death"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Working in end-of-life care can be filled with moments of profound sadness, but also ones of quiet wonder. One hospice nurse has shared an experience she\u2019s witnessed time and again in her work with the dying: a simple yet mysterious gesture many patients make just before they pass.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Katie Duncan, a nurse practitioner and \u201cdeath care coach\u201d from Maryland, has spent years helping people find peace and dignity at the end of their lives. With experience across intensive care units, home hospices, and long-term care settings, she\u2019s observed a pattern she finds both inexplicable and deeply moving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a recent TikTok video, Katie described what she calls one of the \u201cmystical\u201d parts of the dying process: many patients begin reaching upwards, as if trying to grasp something unseen above them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIn my experience, it\u2019s very common,\u201d she said in the video. \u201cYou\u2019ll literally see someone reach up, like they\u2019re trying to hold someone\u2019s hand or touch something in the air.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, this gesture is accompanied by what are known as end-of-life visions. \u201cPeople often say they\u2019re seeing someone, a loved one, a pet, even an angel or a bright light,\u201d Katie explained. \u201cOther times, they don\u2019t speak at all, but still reach up, as if sensing a presence.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While there\u2019s no scientific explanation for this phenomenon, many in palliative care consider it a peaceful part of the transition. Importantly, Katie noted, patients typically don\u2019t appear to be in distress when it happens. \u201cIf anything, they seem comforted,\u201d she said. \u201cThese visions, whatever their origin, often bring people a deep sense of calm.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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She added: \u201cIt\u2019s one of the more mysterious aspects of death that we\u2019re lucky enough to witness as caregivers. It\u2019s humbling.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Katie\u2019s video struck a chord online, with many commenters sharing their own powerful memories.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMy dad reached up with both arms,\u201d one person wrote. \u201cBefore that, he hadn\u2019t been able to lift them at all.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Another commented: \u201cIt\u2019s the in-between. What a privilege to witness.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Others echoed the sentiment: \u201cIt\u2019s heaven they\u2019re reaching for,\u201d wrote one. \u201cI didn\u2019t want to disturb him, it felt sacred,\u201d said another.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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