{"id":6256,"date":"2025-10-07T14:47:56","date_gmt":"2025-10-07T13:47:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/?p=6256"},"modified":"2025-10-07T14:47:58","modified_gmt":"2025-10-07T13:47:58","slug":"on-our-first-date-the-man-called-me-fat-and-pathetic-and-humiliated-me-in-front-of-the-whole-restaurant-but-my-revenge-made-him-regret-everything","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/?p=6256","title":{"rendered":"On our first date the man called me fat and pathetic and humiliated me in front of the whole restaurant \u2014 but my revenge made him regret everything"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/image-83.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6257\" srcset=\"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/image-83.png 800w, https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/image-83-300x216.png 300w, https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/image-83-768x553.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>On our first date the man called me fat and pathetic and humiliated me in front of the whole restaurant \u2014 but my revenge made him regret everything&nbsp;<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude28\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/16.0.1\/svg\/1f628.svg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude22\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/16.0.1\/svg\/1f622.svg\"><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/hayinfo.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/tom-yam2.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-45674\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hayinfo.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/tom-yam2.jpeg\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I met him on a dating site. He seemed like the man I had been waiting for: cultured, polite, able to write beautiful messages and court me with words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We could talk for hours, and I caught myself smiling at my phone as I reread his messages. With him I felt needed, special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When he finally asked me out, I said yes without hesitation. My heart was pounding; I prepared carefully: I put on my best dress, curled my hair, did my makeup. I thought this evening would change my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I entered the restaurant with a slight smile, trying to look confident. But the moment I saw him at the table everything changed. He greeted me not with joy or warmth but with a long, contemptuous look that scanned me from head to toe. In his eyes there was coldness and disgust, as if he were looking at something unpleasant rather than a woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I felt my hands trembling, but I still went to the table trying not to show it. He didn\u2019t even bother to hide his attitude.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhat did you even put on?\u201d he sneered, eyeing my dress. \u201cYour sides are bulging, your stomach shows. Aren\u2019t you ashamed?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I froze; it felt like something inside my chest had broken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI wore the best I have,\u201d I answered quietly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He burst out laughing loudly so that the neighboring tables turned to look at us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cSo that\u2019s your best? My God \u2014 I don\u2019t even want to imagine what other rags you have.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/hayinfo.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/tom-yam.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-45672\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hayinfo.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/tom-yam.jpeg\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I stood there with tears welling up, and he didn\u2019t stop:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhy did you even message me? Do you think men like me go out with women like you? Let me be clear: I\u2019m not going to pay for you. It\u2019s enough that I saw you in person \u2014 and I already regret it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He spoke loudly, sharply, venomously, on purpose so everyone could hear. His words hit harder than slaps. I couldn\u2019t understand \u2014 was this the same man I had talked to at night? The one who wrote about romance, dreams, and said he liked me? Sitting in front of me was a completely different person \u2014 cruel and disgusting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201c\u2018Baby, I miss you, I want to see you\u2026\u2019\u201d he mocked in a revolting voice. \u201cAnd that\u2019s why you wanted to meet? So I could look at your pathetic face? It disgusts me even to sit next to you!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At that moment something clicked inside me. Instead of tears, anger came. I didn\u2019t want to be his victim anymore. And unexpectedly even to myself, I did something I do not regret at all.&nbsp;<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude28\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/16.0.1\/svg\/1f628.svg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude31\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/16.0.1\/svg\/1f631.svg\">&nbsp;Continued in the first comment&nbsp;<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\ud83d\udc47\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/16.0.1\/svg\/1f447.svg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\ud83d\udc47\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/16.0.1\/svg\/1f447.svg\"><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/hayinfo.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/tom-yam1.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-45673\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hayinfo.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/tom-yam1.jpeg\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A waiter walked by with a tray on which a steaming bowl of red, spicy tom yum was placed. I snatched it from the tray and, before he could react, poured the entire contents over his head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There were shrieks and shouts \u2014 he jumped up, clutching his face, and the smell of spices and heat spread through the hall. People froze, then someone snickered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I straightened up, gathered my pride, and, looking down at him, said coldly:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThe gentleman will pay for everything.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then I lifted my chin and walked out of the restaurant slowly and confidently, leaving him in his wet suit under the laughter and astonished looks of the guests.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>On our first date the man called me fat and pathetic and humiliated me in front of the whole restaurant \u2014 but my revenge made <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/?p=6256\" title=\"On our first date the man called me fat and pathetic and humiliated me in front of the whole restaurant \u2014 but my revenge made him regret everything\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":6257,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6256","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorised"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6256","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6256"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6256\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6258,"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6256\/revisions\/6258"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6257"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}