{"id":693,"date":"2025-04-12T11:23:47","date_gmt":"2025-04-12T10:23:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/?p=693"},"modified":"2025-04-12T11:23:48","modified_gmt":"2025-04-12T10:23:48","slug":"my-fiance-told-me-to-pay-for-his-and-his-friends-meal-i-taught-him-a-lesson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/?p=693","title":{"rendered":"My Fianc\u00e9 Told Me to Pay For His and His Friends\u2019 Meal \u2013 I Taught Him a Lesson"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"678\" height=\"381\" src=\"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/image-202.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-694\" srcset=\"https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/image-202.png 678w, https:\/\/time.amazingstory.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/image-202-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 678px) 100vw, 678px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A woman\u2019s fianc\u00e9 insisted she paid for his and his friends\u2019 meals because she got a salary raise. Having had enough, she snuck out of the restaurant, forcing her fianc\u00e9 to pay for their food, which he couldn\u2019t afford.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A woman\u2019s fianc\u00e9 constantly gaslighted her about her financial capacity. It came to a point where he demanded she pay for their meals whenever they went out with his friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On Reddit, the woman narrated the sticky situation she was in. She wanted to see whether or not people thought she was wrong for what she did. The woman explained that she kept her finances separate throughout her relationship with her fianc\u00e9. They never shared a joint account because her fianc\u00e9 didn\u2019t want one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.amomama.com\/47b6ed9d52e069927a66ac97a6e1bf6813ed3ce3e39e78e061e8469584d725a0.jpg\" alt=\"A couple at home | Source: Pexels\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A couple at home | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Around the fifth month of their engagement, the woman got a raise. She and her husband deduced that she earned 30% more than he did. Since getting a raise, the woman noticed her fianc\u00e9 would constantly request her to pay for him and his friends. \u201cWhy should I pay for this?\u201d she\u2019d&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/x5036x\/aita_for_sneaking_out_of_the_restaurant_after_my\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ask<\/a>&nbsp;him. \u201cThe 30%, that\u2019s why,\u201d he\u2019d&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/x5036x\/aita_for_sneaking_out_of_the_restaurant_after_my\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">reply<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.amomama.com\/28fdd34095bf8396c1d7ad4bcd5c17223a4bf0b618b506e095b95dbd34f74b46.jpg\" alt=\"A working woman | Source: Pexels\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A working woman | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because of how her fianc\u00e9 treated her, the woman felt he was implying she didn\u2019t deserve the raise. It was like he was taking the salary raise against her and that it was unfair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her fianc\u00e9 enjoyed eating out with his friends. Several times, they\u2019d ask the woman to join them, and he\u2019d trick her into paying for the entire meal by asking her publicly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.amomama.com\/65d04e55121d59267954c3f625557226d3ac73cc52f73b950a9e012f4ded1e4d.jpg\" alt=\"Friends sharing a meal together | Source: Pexels\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Friends sharing a meal together | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Admittedly, the woman was always too nice to say no. She hated confrontation, so she\u2019d suck it up, smile, and pay for the bill. One day, she finally had enough. Her fianc\u00e9 asked again if she could join him and his friends for dinner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She obliged, but from the moment they left for the restaurant, she had already clarified to him that she wouldn\u2019t be footing the bill. He assured her that wasn\u2019t the case and said it was on him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.amomama.com\/ff163ed7f3a2ee8aa815ad2812ffa40447e84cb5dfbe992ceec01301f274cdfb.jpg\" alt=\"A couple in a car | Source: Pexels\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A couple in a car | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everything was going well during their dinner until he whispered in her ear that she\u2019d be paying for everything in the middle of the meal. She was furious and&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/x5036x\/aita_for_sneaking_out_of_the_restaurant_after_my\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">whispered back<\/a>&nbsp;a resounding \u201cno.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Like clockwork, the man knew his fianc\u00e9e hated causing a scene in public. So, he publicly announced, \u201cYou have enough money you could pay for everyone\u2019s food, 30% remember?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.amomama.com\/a597bb728973ca25db279227871cf2fec5cea4c695ef478a221af8970304567f.jpg\" alt=\"A successful woman | Source: Pexels\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A successful woman | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The woman was livid. She waited until the tabs were on the table to make her move. The restaurant already split the bills from the start between the woman and the rest of the party. She paid for her order and excused herself to the restroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.amomama.com\/41157f6a24d2756eb706fd0a4a50a05971275c5930cd42b86cf0541ef24962ea.jpg\" alt=\"Someone paying with a credit card | Source: Pexels\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Someone paying with a credit card | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then, she made the bold move of sneaking out of the restaurant and driving herself home. Soon after, she got phone calls from her fianc\u00e9 demanding to know where she was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She told him he didn\u2019t appreciate being put in the spot again and being tricked into paying for other people\u2019s meals. Hours later, her man caused a scene at home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.amomama.com\/bd8e744299fa96ff63f3ccf3b56412cedc9f9457c92d8af8047bfe6c08df4d52.jpg\" alt=\"A woman driving | Source: Pexels\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A woman driving | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He began yelling at her, calling her different names. He claimed it was childish of her to leave him like that, abandoning him with a bill he could not pay for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The woman\u2019s fianc\u00e9&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/x5036x\/aita_for_sneaking_out_of_the_restaurant_after_my\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">called<\/a>&nbsp;her \u201cselfish, irrational, cheapskate, and childish.\u201d He said his friends were disappointed and asked him to think about the type of woman he would marry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.amomama.com\/efe4e63e85f0b342771f0a3a8ae84ea585c8a567700d2e241a4daabb34a633ac.jpg\" alt=\"A couple arguing | Source: Pexels\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A couple arguing | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>People Sided with the Woman<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ultimately, the woman felt she did nothing wrong. However, because of how her fianc\u00e9 reacted, she felt the need to seek help online. People on the internet made sure to give the woman an awakening. They thought she was putting herself in a bad situation based on the man she chose to marry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.amomama.com\/4fbd9e3801904d1417cdd43547a2d2b49239f8db7595ac25aab15961cf738c66.jpg\" alt=\"A troubled woman | Source: Pexels\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A troubled woman | Source: Pexels<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People on Reddit made it clear that the woman was being manipulated by her fianc\u00e9. They hoped she was wise enough to dump him and save herself from further torment.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>A woman\u2019s fianc\u00e9 insisted she paid for his and his friends\u2019 meals because she got a salary raise. 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